Being a quad means you're going to stand out, like it or not. I had some experience with this before as I have red hair. :) But this is different obviously. Over time you start to get used to it, but there are some days it can be a bit much. I'll admit there are times when being noticed, and having people comment on how 'courageous' you are can be a bit of an ego boost. But that can grow old, and it can be tiresome being reminded that you are always having to do more just to participate in life.
The more interesting reactions come from kids, the wonderment in their eyes as they see you and realize it's something new and different. It's sad when you see some parents who pull the child away and simply say 'don't stare'. Then there are those adults who just stand and gawk at you. It doesn't happen as often, as today we aren't expected to just sit on the sidelines anymore.
Be prepared though, you're going to get reactions you aren't expecting. The up side is that each time you're out there doing your thing, that's a few more people who realize that we're willing to do what it takes to have a life.
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